One thing I’ve often said in previous posts on The Autism Site Blog is that neurotypical advocates—including families, teachers, therapists, and experts—need to be lending a close ear to autistic authors and what they have to say. But if you’re just starting out with this endeavor, you may not know where to begin and may feel overwhelmed by the plethora of resources out there.
That’s why I’m so ridiculously excited to share with you nine of the incredible blogs I have discovered over the years and have been earnestly learning from. Every single blog in this list features posts by at least one autistic writer, but most of them are led independently by one autistic person. Not all of their authors post regularly, but don’t let that deter you; they all have some very important, absolutely must-read posts and archives you can look through!
9. John Elder Robison’s Look Me in the Eye
John Elder Robison didn’t receive his Asperger’s diagnosis until he was an adult, but since then, he has become a prominent voice in the autism community. He is known as the author of the best-selling memoir, Look Me in the Eye, and he formerly served on Autism Speaks’s Science and Treatment Boards (this was an attempt to change the organization from the inside out; after realizing his efforts were futile, he resigned in 2013). Robison’s work offers a balanced viewpoint that unites both sides of a very fractured autism community. You can see one example of that in this post.
8. Chris Bonnello’s Autistic, Not Weird
Chris Bonnello (AKA Captain Quirk) is a former primary school teacher who also has Asperger’s. Unlike some of the other blogs mentioned here, Bonnello doesn’t just share his perspective of the autism experience; he also provides advice for autistic people and their parents. Using a similarly balanced tone as John Elder Robison, he nevertheless advocates for acceptance of people with autism. You can check out his fantastic (and most-read) post, “Five Ways to Damage Autistic Children Without Even Knowing” here.
7. Cynthia Kim’s Musings of an Aspie
The first (but certainly not last) female blogger on this list is Cynthia Kim, a woman on the spectrum. She received a late diagnosis at age 42, after being a wife and mother for 24 years. Along with talking about Asperger’s as it relates to her life in general, she also writes about the experience of being a woman with autism. She is also the creator of Stimtastic and the author of Nerdy, Shy, and Socially Inappropriate. She wrote a compelling post about the goals of an IEP, which you can read here.
6. The Zurcher-Longs’ Emma’s Hope Book
Emma Zurcher-Long is a teenage girl with autism. Though she is technically verbal, she has a mind-body disconnect that causes her to communicate much more effectively through writing or typing than she can through speech. She has written most of the more recent posts on Emma’s Hope Book, but her mother, Ariane, has also been an extensive contributor.
One thing I appreciate about this blog is that it shows autism acceptance isn’t just for those who are supposedly “high-functioning.” It tells the story of an autism family that started out like many others: they were desperate to “save” their daughter and tried every treatment method they could think of, leaving no stones unturned (Ariane talks about this in the must-read blog post, “The Seduction of ‘Recovery'”). For parents who are scared for their child and worry about the future, this blog is definitely something you should bookmark.
5. Max Sparrow’s Unstrange Mind
Oh, gosh. Where do I even begin with Sparrow’s incredible talent and insight? He is an incredible writer whose work is often long but well worth the read. But words don’t do it justice; you’ll have to read his work for yourself. I highly recommend you check out this post on ABA—it rocked my world and I’ve never been the same since reading it. That may sound overly dramatic, but read it and you’ll see what I mean.
4. Thinking Person’s Guide to Autism (Various authors)
A compilation of articles written by parents, autistic people, and autism professionals and experts, the Thinking Person’s Guide to Autism is, according to the website’s mission page, “a one-stop source for carefully curated, evidence-based information from autism parents, autistics, and autism professionals.”
Along with providing evidence-based information, it also provides essays and works by autistic people, parents, and experts. For example, Reid Knight’s “Parents: Don’t Hide Your Children’s Autism Diagnoses From Them” is a fantastic and poignant read.
3. Ido Kedar’s Ido in Autismland
Ido is a nonspeaking individual with autism who, once believed to have an intellectual disability, later learned to communicate his complex thoughts and demonstrate his high intelligence through the Rapid Prompting Method. Since then, he has become an advocate for others in the same situation he was in. Check out one of his many awesome posts here and get ready to have some of your thoughts and notions on autism challenged!
2. Julia Bascom’s Just Stimming
Another fantastically talented writer, Julia Bascom’s style of writing is beautiful, poetic, and powerful. Her post “Quiet Hands” is incredible and has been widely cited by many other autism bloggers. It reads like a creative nonfiction essay and has something powerful to say about the way we try to stop autistic children from stimming.
1. Creigh and Caley Farinas’s Autism Spectrum Explained
I was first introduced to the Farinases several years ago when I read this work by Creigh—the neurotypical sister of Caley, who is autistic. The two sisters blog at Autism Spectrum Explained. Every single post that Creigh writes is read over and approved by Caley to make sure the post accurately represents her and other autistic people. Check out this fantastic post written by Caley about self-advocacy.
A. Stout received a Bachelor of Arts in Writing through Grand Valley State University, graduating Magna Cum Laude in 2015. In addition to being a passionate autism advocate, she is a member of various fandoms, a study abroad alumna, and an animal lover. She dreams of publishing novels and traveling all over the world someday.